This morning, I heard on the radio a story that included mention of
pajamas that tell your kid a bedtime story, and a chip that you put on
(in???) your baby that will send you a message when they've wet
themselves. All I could think is, WHY is there even a market for things
that will allow parents to have even LESS contact with their children?
The little-known (but well established by research) fact is that children can sicken and DIE from lack of
real contact with human beings. Actually physically die. They
literally NEED us to pay attention to them, to be WITH them, not just in
the same general space, but truly WITH them. It isn't a preference, it
isn't "being spoiled," they actually, literally NEED human connection.
"Mommy, watch me!" is thus as legitimate and necessary a request as
"Mommy, feed me." How is it our culture has become so anti-human that
we don't recognize that, even when science tells us that? Ardent: adjective 1: characterized by warmth of feeling typically expressed in eager zealous support or activity 2: fiery, hot (an ardent sun) 3: shining, glowing (ardent eyes) Venture: transitive verb 1: to expose to hazard: risk, gamble (ventured a buck or two on the race) 2: to undertake the risks and dangers of : brave (ventured the stormy sea) 3: to offer at the risk of rebuff, rejection, or censure (thanks to Merriam-Webster)
Monday, May 13, 2013
Hot on the heels of Mother's Day. . .
This morning, I heard on the radio a story that included mention of
pajamas that tell your kid a bedtime story, and a chip that you put on
(in???) your baby that will send you a message when they've wet
themselves. All I could think is, WHY is there even a market for things
that will allow parents to have even LESS contact with their children?
The little-known (but well established by research) fact is that children can sicken and DIE from lack of
real contact with human beings. Actually physically die. They
literally NEED us to pay attention to them, to be WITH them, not just in
the same general space, but truly WITH them. It isn't a preference, it
isn't "being spoiled," they actually, literally NEED human connection.
"Mommy, watch me!" is thus as legitimate and necessary a request as
"Mommy, feed me." How is it our culture has become so anti-human that
we don't recognize that, even when science tells us that?
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